sorted.

So I've told Ben and Dan that it's not happening. Literally rang them both up one after the other and told them I wasn't ready to get into anything right now. They were both really cool about it. 

Ben is willing to still be friends, but I think Dan is a little dubious to whether I will put the effort in, or maybe he doesn't want to be bothered to put the effort in for just friends. I don't know, doesn't really matter either way.

So this is it, I'm going it alone from now on, or at least until I find someone who floats my boat in all the right places ahaha. But I shall not look for them, no more internet dating sites, even if they are fun and free, it's no good. It will happen when it's supposed to and I have a sneaking suspicion, without meaning to sound all spiritual and start talking about 'fate', when it happens it will be in very extraordinary circumstances, how could it be any other way really?

Extraordinary people need to meet in extraordinary ways.

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